Men want commitment but will only commit to a woman who is not out to control him with man-management.

The minute men feel you are trying to change him or tell him what to do you have lost his attraction.

Men do not need someone to control and mother them.

Men do not want a woman who is needy or desperate for him to be the source of her happiness. Men do not want to be able to walk all over you. They want a woman they can respect.

Be clear on what you do and do not want for yourself and tell your man directly. Men like the challenge, so challenge your man. Be true to what you believe and he will respect and admire you for it.

Men need freedom and are attracted to those women who do not keep him from doing the things he enjoys for himself, the things he needs to do which make him happy.

Men love women who bring on the fun and the positive. This type of energy makes him desire to connect with you so that he wants more and more of your time.

Men love elegance and the ability to make a woman happy. It is a turn off when women whine, pressure or complain. This is what children do to get their way or to communicate they are feeling hurt or insecure.

Emotionally healthy women know and respect their own feelings more than turn them into complaints and vehicles for playing the victim.

Much of what makes men tick is counter-intuitive to women. The concept of you being less actually makes you more to a man. Being less, meaning you do not have to work so hard to figure a man out to keep him.

Be simple, give space, live and love your own life and do not make him the center of your universe.

Men are attracted to what they cannot control or predict. They obsess over women who flirt, give them attention and then do not feel the need to talk the next day.

Neediness and desperation are perhaps the biggest attraction killers for men. Men fall in Love in your absence while you fall in love in their presence.

Love yourself, live your life and create the space for a man to love you.

If you want a lover 
I’ll do anything you ask me to 
And if you want another kind of love 
I’ll wear a mask for you 
If you want a partner 
Take my hand 
Or if you want to strike me down in anger 
Here I stand 
I’m your man

If you want a boxer 
I will step into the ring for you 
And if you want a doctor 
I’ll examine every inch of you 
If you want a driver 
Climb inside 
Or if you want to take me for a ride 
You know you can 
I’m your man 

Ah, the moon’s too bright 
The chain’s too tight 
The beast won’t go to sleep 
I’ve been running through these promises to you 
That I made and I could not keep 
Ah but a man never got a woman back 
Not by begging on his knees 
Or I’d crawl to you baby 
And I’d fall at your feet 
And I’d howl at your beauty 
Like a dog in heat 
And I’d claw at your heart 
And I’d tear at your sheet 
I’d say please, please 
I’m your man 

And if you’ve got to sleep 
A moment on the road 
I will steer for you 
And if you want to work the street alone 
I’ll disappear for you 
If you want a father for your child 
Or only want to walk with me a while 
Across the sand 
I’m your man 

If you want a lover 
I’ll do anything you ask me to 
And if you want another kind of love 
I’ll wear a mask for you