If you leave, just leave. Do not leave angry. Leave your stuff behind. Stuff does not want to go. You do. –
Time is in constant movement, yet you choose not to move with it. You refuse to let go of your past mistakes you have made, or you are victim to your negative or traumatic experiences.
Rather than being happy in the present, your past is dictating your situation.
It is true that someone’s past shapes their present, but it is the actions someone takes in the present that will ultimately form their future.
If you focus on past money problems, old relationship problems, old arguments, you recreate them. They become your reality. The new car, the new relationship, the feeling of peace and contentment …
when they appear in your life, they will appear today. Not yesterday. Not tomorrow. But right now. No matter what happened, right now, in this moment, it does not matter.
What matters is moving on, living right now.
The past is called the past for a reason. It is a part of your life that has come to an end. Do not look back on the past, but learn from it. Do not build on the past, but think of what is to come.
Things happen everyday in life that enable to you grow and learn as Human, and the past is a crucial part of your life.
The important thing to remember is that everything happens for a reason, and even if that reason is unclear now it will be evident in the future. Every event in your life is useful in some way.
With every ending there is a new beginning. Keep moving forward.