Love should not be hard if you are in Love. But, like anything in life, Love is hard and if you think otherwise, you have got another thing wrong.

Can you name one thing in life that does not require effort. Even breathing requires effort. Everything in life requires effort.

Now, there is a difference between you or your partner doing the hard work alone. If that is happening you need to have a serious talk about what the both of you expect from the relationship.

Like the saying goes, it takes two to tango. Not one of you can be putting forth the effort and expecting some kind of result. Nope, you need the two of you.

Love is hard and will never come easy, it involves communication, commitment, not giving up, and an understanding. Communication is key in every relationship.

If your not communicating you will not know whats going on and more than likely you will become frustrated.

Being in the relationship but just wanting it for show is like you go out in public and act all lovey-dovey towards each other but then once your alone you forget your even together.

So communicate if you want it to work out. You need a commitment. If one of you wants to get married and the other does not, it will not work out.

You have to ultimately want to get to the same goal in life. You have to want to stick together through everything and not give up on each other no matter what.

Relationships are hard and there will be times when you question yourself and why your with that person.

Those are the times you need to push through it and communicate more on whats going on and what you want.

The problem with today is you just give up because you think everything should come easy.

You need to have an understanding and compromise. You both must come to a compromise now and then to keep the relationship moving forward.

We come from different back grounds so compromising is another huge part in our relationships.

If you have trouble compromising, pose what you both want, either by writing it down on paper or just by words, and then you take a while to think on it.

If anyone tells you that Love should come easy and does not require any effort, try to understand Love is work and always will be.

But anything is possible with communication, commitment, not giving up, and understanding.